Thursday, November 17, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 17 - Tree of Life Birthing Center and Midwives

It seemed fitting that today be given to the Tree of Life Birthing Center and the midwives that work there. Today is my due date and baby girl hasn't arrived yet, but the midwives have been really great to help educate my husband and I on everything for our daughter coming soon. They've been really focusing on whole health for both the baby and me using more natural methods, such as vitamins and diet. Plus, I'll be able to go home same day and have my baby by my side the entire time. From having low platelet levels and stabilizing them to getting us equipped with knowledge for when the baby does come, I'm grateful that I get to have been given this experience.

Even though my daughter managed to get herself stuck on my right side (preventing her from being born) whether out of stubbornness or accident, I've been given some exercises that should get her to move naturally in the position she needs to be so that we can finally meet her. It's only a matter of time before she'll make her appearance and all 3 of us can be home getting rest and plenty of snuggles.

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 16 - My Job

Day 16 goes to my job as an instructional designer. Being an instructional designer is probably the best fit for me when it comes to work. The job is unique because I get to teach without having to do it in person. I may not see the immediate results but I know the things I create have a huge impact on those who take the training. I find that working for a global company in the software industry has been a challenge that I thrive in. As an instructional designer, I wear many hats and I'm always learning new ways to best represent information using images, cartoons, quizzes, and even games.

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 15 - My Company

Day 15 goes to my company, Hyland. God has really blessed me with Hyland. It was exactly what we needed for my mental health, work-life balance, and for our growing family. The team I work with are really great and my boss trusts my judgement with my work. The fact that I can take 8 weeks of maternity leave is a blessing that I'm very grateful I'll get to use very soon.

Monday, November 14, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 14 - Josh's Family

Day 14 goes to Josh's family. After meeting Josh, they accepted me in their family very quickly and it was a good fit. It's always a blast hanging out with them and teasing each one of them. I'm grateful that God put them in my life and I get to be a part of their family. Moving to Florida was hard leaving them but we look forward to at least seeing Josh's parents in a couple of weeks.

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 13 - My Aunts, Uncles, and Cousins

Day 13 goes to all my aunts, uncles, and cousins. I have been blessed to have a large family that is pretty close knit. It's always a blast getting to spend time with each of them when we get to visit. Holidays have always been my favorite and I look forward to being able to celebrate with my family in the future with our little one.

Sunday, November 13, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 12 - My Grandparents

Day 12 goes to my grandparents. I've grown up only knowing what it's like to have only two grandparents and it has always seemed foreign to me thinking that I could have four, but my Mom-mom and Pop-Pop have easily made up for that with their love, care, and the things they have taught me over the years. Because of what they taught me, I can sew, garden, find ways to make an extra income, do small maintenance on my car, and have another great example of a Godly marriage. When it comes to grandparents, I have the best you can get! I look forward to giving them their first great-grandchild hopefully this week.

Friday, November 11, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 11 - Modern Medicine

I thought modern medicine (that I'm currently allowed to take being pregnant) would be fitting for today because yesterday I woke up what I thought was a cold, but it turned out to be the flu by the afternoon. I also hit 39 weeks in my pregnancy so it wasn't the most opportune time for me to get the flu since I can go into labor at any point.

Although I was very achy and weak with a fever and a pounding headache yesterday, I was able to eventually get the sleep I need and control some of the symptoms so that I feel a million times better today. I can tell baby was also conserving energy, too, since she was being less active and allowing me to get the rest I needed in order for me to gain the energy I'll need to deliver her. I can tell my body is still a little tired from working hard to fight off this illness, but I'm grateful that I was able to break my fever overnight and the worst of the symptoms have gone away.

I have a feeling that I'll feel almost back to my normal self by the end of the weekend and I think baby will follow suit in being ready to make her appearance not too long after that.

Thursday, November 10, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 10 - My Sister

Day 10 goes to my sister. I'm thankful for my little sister, Mel. My sister has been a great blessing to my life. She has taught me so much in the 16 years that she's been around. She is fun to be around, very sassy and smart (sometimes it's scary how sassy and smart she is), and seems to do everything I did at her age but better. I'm so happy I was able to celebrate her sweet sixteen with her before she becomes an aunt. I'm excited to see where God takes you next since you've been doing quite a lot the past year or so.

I love you, Mel! Thanks for being the sister I never knew I needed in my life.

Wednesday, November 9, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 9 - My Brother

Day 9 goes to my brother, Sam. Sam and I might not have gotten along very well growing up, but now it's pretty fun any time I get to hang out with you. You're funny, willing to help, and driven once you have a plan. You're also very good at keeping me on your feet since you have a knack for teasing those closest to you.

I'm excited to see where life takes you next as I've seen some really big life changes you've made this year. It's been a joy watching you pursue something you're really passionate about this past year and figuring out how you plan to make it work. I look forward to seeing you pursue your dream of international business and making the strides to get there.

I love you, Sambo! Thanks for being the brother you are, and I know you will be an awesome uncle to my daughter. You get the favorite uncle award by default, but I think it'll be pretty clear that she'll love you very much since you're good with kids and know how to make everyone around you laugh and have a good time.

Tuesday, November 8, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 8 - The United States and My Rights

Day 8 goes to the country I live in and the rights I have. I'm thankful for a country that has given us freedoms in we are allowed to exercise, such as voting, and has written documentation created to protect those freedoms. Even though it seems like some are trying to take those rights away, there are still many who continue to fight so that US citizens can keep our rights. I'm also very grateful for those who fight for those freedoms that I take for granted every day.

Monday, November 7, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness: Day 7 - My Dad

Day 7 goes to my dad. I'm thankful for my dad. My dad has encouraged me to do my best for God's glory in all I do. From my hobbies of reading and playing board games to my career as a mix of writer, designer, and teacher, I can see how my dad has been such an influence on me. But nothing tops your hugs and your jokes! I'm excited how you will grow into being a Pop-pop for my little girl. I think it might become one of your favorite roles.

I love you, Dad! Thanks for being a great dad and mentor. Just like mom, I wouldn't have turned out to be the person I am without you.

Sunday, November 6, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 6: My Church

Since today is Sunday, I thought today would be a good day to make the church we've been attending the last 3 months as Day 6. Once we first moved into Orlando area, it was really important to us to find a church that was a strong Bible teaching church that allowed us to connect as well as for any kids we do.

I discovered Discovery Church almost immediately after moving and we have been so encouraged and challenged by the pastors' teachings. We happened to start attending the first week they were "advertising" their groups to allow others to get connected, which was definitely something we both prayed we'd find in the church. Because I was already in my third trimester, it was important for me to get connected more quickly so I was able to join an evening women's Bible study group. The study we just finished has continued to be encouragement to me and allow me to feel more prepared for being a mom soon since it reaffirmed how God made women special with very specific roles that fit His purposes. We look forward to each Sunday and what the Lord uses in these messages to teach us more about Him.

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 5: My Mom

Day 5 goes to my mom. I'm so very thankful for my mom. My mom and I used to butt heads a lot while I was growing up, but her kindness, gentleness, and servant's heart have always stuck with me. She has been such a great example of the wife I wanted to become and the mother I hope to be to my daughter and other future children.

She's one of my best friends after I started living on my own. I enjoy all of the conversations we have and the photos of the funny cats she sends. I look forward to having her visit and getting to meet her granddaughter as we share the joys of being mothers together.

I love you, Momma! Thanks for being a great mom and friend. I wouldn't have turned out to be the person I am without you.

Friday, November 4, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 4: Healing

I feel like Day 2 (Esther) and Day 3 (Josh) were God's way to lead to me to the healing I needed in the last 5 years.

I was talking with Josh the other day and he mentioned to me that the smile that he sees on my face and how I carry myself is so different than when we first met. He further explained that the person he met over 2 years ago was a little broken who was still healing from some deep hurt but refused to let that stop her from growing. To hear this, it filled me with such gratitude because I never thought that I'd get to this place. It hasn't been an easy road but I knew in the long run after going through the healing process that it would be all worth working through all the pain.

No longer do I feel like the anxious mess I felt held captive by deep inside. Instead, I feel far more at peace and relaxed even when things seem difficult. Today, I can reflect on everything I've been through and pinpoint instances and the people in my life where God used what He has taught me through those trials. Through these trials, God has made me into a better daughter, sister, wife, friend, and soon a mom.



Thursday, November 3, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 3: Josh

Day 3 goes to Josh. People say your husband/wife should be like a best friend and I definitely have to say that Josh fits that for me. He has been such a blessing since he came into my life. It seems like we've known each other longer than 2.5 years. He is a great provider, husband, encourager, and my biggest advocate. He is wise, clever, and a great listener.

Even when I'm down or not feeling like myself, he sees what he could do to help me feel better or more comfortable. He encourages me in my faith, relationships, and work. He laughs along with me and handles my sass with grace and more jokes.

Whether we're home working remotely, watching something on our tv, traveling somewhere, or going out to try out a new restaurant in the area, every day seems like an adventure. It's hard to imagine life without him by my side now, and I'm excited to start a new adventure together as parents to our little girl we're eagerly waiting to arrive in these last few days.

Wednesday, November 2, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 2: Esther

Day 2 of giving thanks goes to Esther. God knew I needed a friend like Esther in my life, especially after moving across the country.  She has challenged and encouraged me in so many ways over the 5 years I've known her. She follows the Lord with such tenacity and it shows in the way she interacts with anyone she comes across.

God taught me through Esther the joys of being spontaneous and what a true friend is. When we both lived in Washington, we spent many nights past 2am driving to the local 24/7 Mexican drive thru and parking near the local park where we talked about everything in life. That included our desires to be wives and mothers and what we think that would look like. Fast forward a couple of years and the both of us get to walk those stages of life together. Even though we're a couple of states away, we continue to stay in touch and try to be a support each other. As I'm days away from welcoming my little Hailey, I'm blessed that I get to watch Esther grow into the mother she dreamed of being as she loves on her sweet little newborn daughter.

Once life as moms settles down for us, I look forward to reuniting with her and having our daughters play with each other. I look forward to the laughs we'll have, the things we'll do together, and teach our daughters along the way. 

Hope you have a happy birthday today! Love you, girly!

Tuesday, November 1, 2022

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 1: God and My Relationship with Him

I feel like I've tried doing this multiple times and just have not had success being able to finish through to the end of the month. I feel like it's more possible this month but also a little daunting while I spend time writing this during the last few days of my pregnancy and first days as being a mom. As I feel the signs of labor coming in the next days or weeks, I've been definitely feeling a lot more rush of emotions of gratitude, peace, and excitement. 

Without further ado, I'll start with Day 1. For Day 1, I'm most thankful for God and my relationship with Him. I feel like this one is explanatory. I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have a relationship with Christ that started at age 14. I'm forever grateful for the life God has given me and the opportunities I have to share His love with others. Tomorrow and the rest of November will be more in depth examples that stem from all that God has blessed me with the things and people I am thankful for.